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  • Adulting

    Pro Tips on Bullet Journaling

    Since I wrote my primer on bullet journaling over a year ago, I’ve been approached by many friends who were interested in bullet journaling but a little afraid of the bullet journals they saw on Insta or Youtube. First, I’m here to tell you, you’re not alone. I am super creative and even I get overwhelmed by the intricate things people draw and stamp on their journals. While it’s very cute, I suggest you start small and build so you create a sustainable habit instead of another random pile of half filled notebooks (looking at me lol).

  • Adulting Lifestyle

    Smart Apartment Living with Hive

    Now if anyone has been around me for longer than 45 seconds, they would know that I am a card carrying vigilante member of the BeyHive. Much to your delight, or chagrin, this post is not about Beyonce Giselle Knowles-Carter. As a Hive brand ambassador, I was given their smart home products to review. All opinions and awful dad jokes are my own.

  • Feeling Yourself: A Primer on Self Compassion
    29th Crisis Adulting

    Feeling Yourself: A Primer on Self-Compassion

    At the end of last month, I turned 29. Right before, I began a period of self reflection where I mentally mapped what I felt was lacking and viable paths to help me absolve these problem areas. Spoiler alert, there are a lot and I regularly oscillate between feeling defeated by shortcomings and being hopeful that I am able to transcend beyond them. So much so that I made a mantra/affirmation that stands to be my lifesaver in the choppy waters of my feelings. I regularly have to say this, and I welcome you to borrow it if you need it too.

  • 29th Crisis Adulting

    Introducing A New Series: The 29th Crisis

    As my friends and I near the ages of 29 and 30, I noticed some common themes in our retrospections and worries. First, this aging thing snuck up on us fast. Weren’t we just graduating college and worrying about getting jobs in a horrible recession? And now, with each day I near the departing of my twenties and I wonder what have I learned in this fleeting time. Which brings me to the second big theme. We’re searching for one more meaningful achievement to deem our 20s successful. For one friend, she was considering entering a fitness competition. Another was trying to reach a savings goal. And of course, we’ve all heard the people that want to lose X amount of pounds before they enter 30. I myself have even said that I would like to lose 30 before 30. We have seen successes such as graduating from college (twice from me), moving out on our own, getting our first jobs, making career moves. But as the end nears, we just want to set and reach just one more sizable goal in order to feel confident as a fledgling adult. This is a complete sidebar, but it’s kind of like when your Sims kid is nearing a birthday, so you have to make sure all their meters are full so they can advance into the next age with the best potential. Finally, we see the rest of the world hitting mainstream adulting goals and wonder when our time will come. We’re at that age. Our friends are getting married, having babies, buying homes, moving for jobs and the monster called comparison is live and well under our beds. 

  • Adulting

    New Year, New Things

    Happy New Year, lovelies! I’ve gotten to the jaded point where I no longer subscribe to the notion that I can revolutionize my faults to the point where I can declare a "new me" will occur in the coming year. Instead, I wanted take a break from my fairly informative (ha!) posts and just share what I have going on thus far in 2017. Some of these subjects we’ll surely revisit this year, I’m sure, so if you like want to hear more, you’ll definitely want to subscribe le blog.